Thursday, February 7, 2013

Inspired



One quality I love in people is: Honesty and Authenticity (that is two..I know)

If my house could only be furnished in one color it would definitely have to be: Skittles...not literally but full of color..can't choose one.
 
One luxury I cannot live without: Sandhills water and maybe my computer.

If I had to have one designer decorate my entire house with 0 input from me it would have to be: Christopher Loyd, who has my spirit of thriftiness and lots more vision.

If I had to choose coffee or tea it would be: Both!

One place I have been that I would love to go back to: Venice.

One place I am longing to visit is: 
 Greece


One talent I wish I had was: Painting


I think most people would agree I am very: friendly and kind

If I could change one quality about myself it would be: to be less impatient and more tolerant and be more funny..but that's three.


One career I could see myself having would be: a writer

If food is therapy, when stressed I indulge in: anything salty


One of my favorite brands for clothing is: Michael Kors

If my life were a book, the title would be: An Enchanted Life (stolen from someone else but it's true!)


My favorite flower is: Hydrangea

I would love to have coffee and a chat session with this famous person: Carolyn Kennedy

A favorite TV show I can't miss: Greys Anatomy and Private Practice

Tuscany or Provence? Do I have to choose?

The next presidential election will be: As bad or worse than the last, no matter who wins. 

The one best thing about blogging is: finding unlikely friendships, learning about others and finding connections.


A guilty pleasure for me is: going to auctions and garage sales

My strongest quality would have to be:dedicated friend, mother, wife.

The best restaurant I have ever been to was:I couldn't tell you a favorite, but Dalhousie Castle (the in house restaurant) in Scotland, Spinnakers in Victoria B.C., or The Shelter in Tofino, B.C. 

One thing I can honestly say I love about myself is: That I am very generous and love to help others


Town or country: country hands down


One person I admire: I have to say three, my husband and my parents. Awesome in every way.


My favorite room of my house is: My family room

If I were an animal I would be a...horse.

A book I would recommend to everyone would be...

Same Kind of Different as Me
                                     
If I were planning a huge family reunion, this is where I would want to have it:

One thing I wish everyone could be more of: compassionate and accepting. Oops...there I go again, I said two not one! Those two things could change our world.(this copied from the original author..couldn't have said it better myself)

In one word life is...thrilling!
                                 







 

 

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Transforming My Favorite Space

When we bought this house 12 years ago the "it" factor that sold it was that it was different.  The main room in the house, which is quite different now than it was then, was a two story open room with an open stair case and a loft.  I loved that about this house.  I had always wanted to create spaces in our home and around it that felt like a retreat or like we had entered a different place.

I've never really examined that too closely, but maybe that had to do with having been born and raised here and wanting to carve out a unique space that represented the bigger world out there.  At any rate, when we bought this house, I saw very clearly how much fun that would be in these unique spaces.  My mother always said I had the ability to notice every detail in a room and still look past the problems and envision what it could be. 

In creating the family room space in our open room with a loft I was inspired by Spanish / Italian traditional decor and really strove to bring into those rooms special items that gave it that vibe.  However, it was equally important to me that those items were special and reminded of me of special people and places or even hobbies.  The paintings in the room were created from images we took on our trips to Italy.  They were painted by a friend of mine, a local artist Marcia Musson.

Other items were things that I brought myself from places I've traveled.  My great aunt Delores had lived in many places around the world as the wife of a  military officer in her first marriage.  She had an amazing collection of items, each one representing some place she had lived or visited.  Before we were married, we always admired her collection and Tim was always determined we would let her collection that represented her travel inspire one in our own home, and it has. 

And one of my favorite pieces in the room, a buffet, was a $250 dollar deal from eBay and my parents delivered it here to Nebraska for me for free.

It all came together eventually, the stone fireplace, the art work, the furniture, to create the exact feel I'd hoped it would....a comfortable homey place that we could gather with family.  And then we decided to change it.  That seems crazy, because I love it just the way it is, but my husband is a hunter and in a weak moment I broke down and told him his African animal trophies could go in that room.  Yikes, animal heads.  I made it 22 years without a single one in my house and that was an accomplishment being married to an avid big game hunter.

My real dilemma was how to keep the feel and warmth of the room that I loved and change the decor from Italian to African without changing everything about it.  The transition is easier than I imagined it would be, thanks to the last lodge we stayed at in Africa.  It was very similar to my own home in terms of color and Spanish influence, and I realized all of the colors, furniture, and basic elements of the room didn't have to change at all to accomplish my goals.

So..here are some teasers..you'll have to wait a year or two to see the animals in place.



See the chair above?  Another example of my thrifting fun.  I bought the pair of them off eBay for 15 dollars for the pair.  My dad traveled through the town they were in going back and forth from Oklahoma, so he picked them up for me.  They were blond wood, with greasy fabric on them.  I think they had been in a shop or something.  I decided for 15 dollars into the chairs, and the fabric I bought on sale for $15, I could afford to mess up.  So I tore the fabric off, used it as a pattern, and then put it right back on.  I also roughed up the wood and stained it dark.  What I ended up with were these beautiful "fireside" style chairs I'd had my eye on but would have never purchased at $900 a piece. And mine were really just $30 for the two.  Yep..that's my kind of bargain.

This pot was found at a Lazy Boy store near where our daughter and her husband live in Olathe, Kansas.  For you bargain hunters out there, they have a great discontinued accessories area in their store..and GREAT prices.  Really.  This huge pot was under $40 dollars and I had been looking for one for years, but refused to pay $200-300 dollars the home and garden stores were asking.

Another hobby, scrap booking, has been transformed by online sites that cater to that and digital cameras.  I love Mixbook myself, because of the scrap book like feel, and I create one every time we travel anywhere.  We actually printed two of these, one smaller one for my husband's business, and another one that is a coffee table book in our family room "gone wild". 

Bloom Where You are Planted



They always say you can take the girl out of the country but you can't take the country out of the girl.  That always makes me smile.  I was born, raised, married, and settled here in Holt County, much to my chagrin much of the time. When I was growing up I would complain about working in the hayfield, having to get greasy, and working out in the heat all day long.  My dad would tease me that I would marry a rancher and live there my whole life.  He was wrong.  But only a little wrong.  I didn't marry a rancher, but I did marry a local business owner who eventually bought a hunting ranch.  I don't live on a ranch, but I do live in the country a mile from town, a whole whopping 20 miles from where I grew up.

I did leave for long enough to go to college and I planned to move to Fort Collins Colorado, near where my best friend lives. But God had different plans for me, and like the song says, "thank God for unanswered prayers."  A person can never know what He has in mind for us, but we can trust that it is perfect.  So while I never planned to come back or settle here right where I grew up, I am so blessed in my life and thankful.

What struck me though, was reading my former student Suzi Campbell's blog, Chores and Chandeliers.  She is such an inspiration and in many ways, Suzi and I are kindred spirits.  Our creative side, our desire to find a bargain, loving to create a new space or recreate an old one, and zest for life.  What I admire about Suzi, though, is her embracing of this country life we've been placed in.  When I read her most recent blog post about a run in with a cattle drive I couldn't help but smile.  She has such enthusiasm for the simplest pleasures and those rare moments when life collides with place and we recognize the irony of it all.

I love where I am most days, and I am blessed with a husband who knows he has to "get me out of dodge" every now and then.  I am blessed with the opportunity to raise my kids in a small community that they love near family that love them too.  I am blessed with perspective, having had the opportunity to travel around the world, literally, and still love coming home.  Max Lucado wrote a book called A Cure for the Common Life, where he talks about finding your sweet spot.  That's really what it is all about isn't it...finding what makes you tick right where you are, grabbing life by the horns, and going for it.

I never look back, only ahead to what life has to offer next, knowing full well that a much higher power than myself sees the big picture and is saying, "Sit back and enjoy the ride Michaela...I know what you need."




Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Where next...

Travel always seemed elusive to me growing up.  We did a little bit, locally, but it wasn't until I got married that I really had opportunities that really seemed out of reach before.  My husband and I talked about traveling, but I think our love and passion for it really kind of grew in us as opportunities arose and we would find ourselves thinking, "Wow, I checked that off the bucket list, ....what next?".

I never really expected to be able to travel like we have.  I feel really blessed to have seen a little of the world, and to have experienced different cultures, food, and places.   The first time we went on a major trip, after our honeymoon that is, we went to Europe.  I was working as a counselor in a parochial school and the principal suggested I organize an adult trip to Europe.  I fully expected Tim to say there was no way.  I really thought it was out of our reach.  But what he did instead was say, "Let's make it happen."

It caught me off guard then, but it soon became clear that he would always approach every appeal that way.  He spoils me.  Not that it is always easy, mind you, but just that if it is at all possible, he looks at the request, figures out what needs to be done to make it a possibility, and then takes one step at a time to make it so. Isn't that cool?  He's a keeper.

Since that time, we've had some amazing opportunities.  As a matter of course, if you are reading this blog, you will occasionally hear about travels.  Most recently, I had the chance go to a conference in Seattle and Tim decided to go with me.  We went a day early so we could sneak over to one of our favorite places, Vancouver Island, and stay at Spinnaker's Guest House and eat at their Brew Pub.

One of Tim's childhood friends and his wife drove 5 HOURS to meet us.  We felt really special.  It was great spending some time with them and reconnecting in Seattle..they live south of Portland.

I was able to attend the ALA Midwinter Conference too, which was a really big deal for someone who hasn't secured a job in library science yet.  What a treat to hear guest speaker Caroline Kennedy speak!

I love turning unexpected opportunities into travel experiences, and what better way than to enjoy it with your best friend, old friends, meeting new friends, and experiencing great scenery, food, music, and taking advantage of opportunities.  Thanking God every day for those blessings! 


Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Linky Party going on over at the Rustic Pig.  Go check out some of the fun crafts, food, and stories!

Sunday, January 20, 2013

Blog Hopping

I Heart Nap Time
This is a fun old fashioned (well maybe not old fashioned) blog hop. Lolly Jane, at http://lollyjane.com/diy-address-sign/ was a girl after my own heart...check out her diy inspired house number! And at the Happier Homemaker the jewelry wants to make me get my beads out! http://www.thehappierhomemaker.com/2013/01/diy-braided-bead-necklace.html
Life on Lakeshore Drive
Check out Life on Lakeshore Drive...cool projects there!

The Kitchen Cabinet Turned Bar

Sentimental is the name of the game.  I am not a hoarder, really I am not.  But I love things with a story.  When my husband and I were engaged, my great uncle was remodeling my mother's kitchen.  At that time, he made her a kitchen cabinet that I admired.  When Tim and I got married, my parents gifted us with a replica of that kitchen cabinet, also made by great uncle Paul Deermer.

He was quite the guy..a story teller, a lover of life.  He laughed easily, smiled quickly, and was a great craftsman.  He didn't ever think he would live a long life due to a family history of heart issues, but he always said he had a lot more to do.  He didn't get the chance to do it all, as he died not long after we were married.  I always felt blessed to be the keeper of such a special piece of furniture, crafted with his hands, chosen for us by my parents.

The problem is, tastes change, trends change, and so do home spaces.  When we moved into our current home, we were carving out a unique space, one that did not depict the country life we lived in (but that's another story).  For the rural Nebraska area that I live in, our home is unique.  It is not a ranch style home.  It is a Spanish inspired home, and when we were remodeling, we were very intentional about trying to create a retreat, a place that felt like all of the places we loved to go, and was home too.  Not only did this cabinet not look right here, but I didn't have a room that it fit in and worked.

Last year, I started doing some rethinking of my front family room, and realized I wanted a big cabinet to go in a corner by the windows.  My husband wanted the cabinet out of the small room it had been in so he could put more storage in it's place.  It occurred to me that with a little effort, this country cabinet could be turned into a beautiful bar cabinet perfect for that front corner.

I started with wanting to paint it black, place a mirror on the back of the upper part, add t-molding to the shelving to hold stemware, and maybe one day even add some doors with wrought iron work in them.  But it would still be the good heavy cabinet my uncle had made, just with new attitude and purpose.

I am in the process now of painting it.  After alot of research, and a couple of tests, I decided on this approach to the cabinet.  Use oil based paint, since I wanted a really smooth, tough black finish.  Use liquid sandpaper so I could skip sanding and priming (I know..for shame, right?).  Let each coat dry completely before adding a new coat.

It is making for a long process...no doubt.  But I LOVE how it is turning out.  The finish is very nice and smooth without brush marks.  I used a satin finish, which is perfect for what I wanted to accomplish.  I haven't decided if I will distress it yet or not.  Tim says no...but I'm not so sure.  I can't wait until I put it all in place and move my stemware into it.

So in the pictures, you see the project in the works.  And the inspiration pictures.  The finished product is yet to come and will look more like the one above, but with a finish similar to the black one.  Either way, in the end it will be completely reinvented..stay tuned..I think you will like it.


http://www.shopchristophers.com/ccp22460-howard-miller-cornerstone-estates-wine--bar-cabi-hm695082.htm






Why the Gathering Room?

True to my nature, I was driving into town and saw the sign..a garage sale sign, and of course I pulled right in.  It had just opened, and I went through, bought about 5 items, and checked out.  Among my treasures were some three panel room divider screens with candle holders, a bench, a chair, a frame, and this sign.  The sign is nothing extraordinary, that's for sure, but at that time I was considering starting a blog, and when I saw the sign, I thought "that's it"!

The gathering room conjures in my mind many things, just like it did that day.  Initially it begged the question, "Just where is this gathering room?".  Like my pastor once aptly described, a gathering to honor God is as appropriate in an empty meadow as it is in a European cathedral.  It is the connection that matters, not so much the place where we connect.

But, it isn't ever as simple as that either.  Sometimes, the place is the setting that creates the mood for the connection.  I think back on special moments in my life, most of them involving my family some how, and often times there was something that evoked attention, focus, atmosphere, acceptance,  even "mood".  I remember sitting on the balcony of a castle in Scotland, drinking a glass of champagne with my husband, looking out over a manicured lawn and knowing with all of my heart that there was no better companion in life, not just on that trip, than that man.  You might think it was because I was in a castle, and you might think it was because I was in Scotland.  I doubt you would be altogether wrong.  But the big picture dictated that we were together, doing something we loved to do (travel, eat, learn), enjoying time together in a common space with a common purpose.

Really, the gathering room for me isn't so much about a space, as it is about feelings.  So when I named my blog "the gathering room chic" it really was that simple, inspired by a favorite activity, conjuring favorite people, things, and activities all into one place.  

Saturday, January 19, 2013

Confessions of a Blog Addict

I confess I am addicted to blogs.  I have this thing about collecting ideas, pictures, recipes, stories, etc.  A couple of years ago, I discovered blogs and I  literally started collecting blogs. It just seemed like one more way to gather my ideas, favorites, inspirations all into one space.  So I started reading blogs and subscribing to them.   So much inspiration, so little time right?

I don't go to every single blog every single day, but I did discover "Google Reader" and that fed my addiction.  The great thing is that nearly every blog I love to read feeds into "Reader" and allows me to be alerted every time something new is posted on any one of my favorite blogs.  I can stay connected when it is convenient, and I get to see all of the latest happenings with all of my favorite blog authors. 

If you are like me and are out browsing blogs for new ideas, check out your favorite blog authors.  They usually post their own favorite blog links on their site and you can quickly network to all kinds of people who have the same interests as you do.  But if you really are like me, be careful.  My lack of ability to focus in terms of interests means for a whole lot of blog reading. Oh darn. :-)